wife being difficult

Question

My wife causes me much grief and suffering due to the following reasons:
1)She doesnt fulful my conjugal rights as a result I am tempted to go towards haraam.
2)Her dressing and appearance is shabby and unattractive
3) She has bad character; disobedient
4)I want more children but she refuses
I have addressed the problem with her but she doesnt take heed.I told her that i will get another wife.She said that it is ok but i must seperate from her.My concern is my young innocent child who will suffer as a result of this.
Please advise me

zha654 · Answer

Go for marriage counseling. Buy her attractive moral clothing. Teach her how to be obedient. Get her to be regular in Salaat. Read stories of the Sahabah for 5 min a day to her. Do not divorce her. Do not be abusive to her. Be extremely kind and good to her. Win her, do not lose her.