What should one do if ones husband keeps telling one what he does for one

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Assalamualaikum. I have just recenlty gotten married and Shukar to the Almighty I am very happy with my husband and my inlaws. My question pertains to a character/behavioural trait of my husband. I have found in our recent months of being married that he constantly brings to our attention (mines, his sister and my mother in law) at various incidents of what he does for us. He constantly reminds us that this is HIS house and we are priveledged to live with him, etc etc. It is always a case of what HE does and that He provides. He does not show any gratificatioin towards us in any way. Especially his mother that does and has been doing for him all his life. His Sister and I are working class people and contribute towards the house however this is never acknowledged. It is still always what He does and provides.
He has done this on many occasions and I have found that it does cause tension, irriatation and to some degree unhappiness amongst the family.
How should I deal with this situation.
Jazakallah Ghair

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Asked on February 15, 2011 2:54 pm
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Stop working. Let him shoulder the responsibility which he should be doing in the first place.
His statements in this age are normal, make Duaa for him. Double acknowledge it, perhaps he may feel shy and stop.
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Answered on February 15, 2011 2:54 pm