What should one do if ones husband disrespects his wife?

slam muftisaab iwould like to known everytime my husband say i am not a good mother to his children if he stays at home his children will be displined and he always say i must pack my thing and go will with my two daughetrs and he beats me when i tell himm to bring someone who he thinks will do a good job for his children this mornig just after sehri he started say same things all the time so isaid give my talak and bring someone else so he said i must go to england and bangldesh .for years i have been making sabr he calls me useles and beats me in front of his children i ran a busnisess from home what must i do please iam fortynine yrs old and i get beating from my husband everythiny thing his in order i have two maid to help