in a fight wiht my wife i asked her to leave me and she left me for her home. after that i called my wife brother at my home and had him sit with elder brother to resolve our issue. my wife disclosed our private talks to her brother and they revealed it to my brother and I also started revealing our private bedroom matter against her which actually caused matter more severe. I then went her home to take her back but she and her parents were not convinced to send her back to me. now we have tried several steps to resolve the issue and to take my wife back but they are not sending her. they are asking me to mend my behavior which i think is somewhat wrong but since i revealed their secrets to my brother that’s why they are now black marekting me and not sending their sister to me.
please guide me under the light of Sharia what should I do now.. should i divorce my wife or wait for good time when she starts realizing her husband importance.