assalaamualaikum. i am married for 18 years. my husband is a wonderful man. he provides me and my 2 daughters with everything. his relationship with my parents are not so good. about 3 years ago he had a confrontation with my dad. things got very bad. he stopped my dad from comming to my house. i spoke to my dad and asked him to appoligise to my husband as the problem was his fault. things got back to normal but there relation did not. in the time that my husband was angry with my dad he was very loving to me he paid alot of attention to me in everyway. last year we went for haj together and my father said and did a few things which my husband did not like. since then my husband is not fine with me. he still gives us everything but he shows no love and affection towards me.this deppresses me alot. when i asked him he admitted that my father is the problem. i can see that he resents my parents but he says he does not. does he have the right to not show me any love because of how my parents are. i feel like everytime i mention them he gets upset. i have to keep making excuses with my family for him. my dad got a lot of faults which i dont even approve of but what must i do. his behaviour with my husband has gotten worse since my sister got married. i feel that my father has favorites with his children which my husband dont like. please let me know how i can get my husband to love and be intimate with me. i think that everytime he looks at me he sees my fathers face and turns away from me. i would like to explain everything in person or over the phone as i am becoming more deppressed as the days go pass. please provide me with your phone numbers if possible. wassalaam.
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