What does masturbating in Jamaah mean?

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Assalaamulaykum muftisaap
Alhamdulillah mAllah has opened up the work of tabligh tom me since 2007 when I first went for 2 months to India and pakistaan. i could not finish my 4 months as my wife put up a big fight leaving me with the kids for almost 3 weeks prior to me leaving. the families became involved and made me agree to go only for 40 days , howvere I extended to 2 months and while in pakistaan the elders advised me to come back due to the promise I made my wife prior to going. However since than I have been quite regular in doing the local work but with lots of problems and fighting and continuous unhappiness from her side till this day. ive been to South America and local for a chilla each thereafter but till this day prtoblems continue and whenever I want to do a 3days or a ghust its a nightmare . The elders have given me lots of advice , taalim and mastooraat work but to no avail, she refuses to go for even 1 day to a mastooraat program, and has promised never to and never to even host a jamaat. She has said many times that the work is true but she cant tolerate it that I leave her and family ( 3 kids , 5yrs , 3yrs and newborn) all the time. In the light to all this I recently had a dream where I seen myself and my wife going for the first time in mastooraat for 3 days together to a muftis house, the worrying thing is that in that dream I seen myself masturbating in his bathroom despite being in jamaat with my wife. i slept in a paak state after offering esha salaat. please interpret dream for me

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Asked on December 3, 2011 11:30 am
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Keep a distance from the Muftis home.
Start Kitaab reading at home even it be for 5 minutes - Even if you do it alone. Increase Nafl Ibadaat at home. Do local and out ghush regularly. Do not insist on leaving your family for long periods.
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Answered on December 3, 2011 11:30 am