Wanting to live on own after marriage

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As salaam wa alaikum,

My question is regarding a marriage proposal. A proposal came but dont know whether to accept because after marriage he wants me to live with his mother. I always told myself that I would not want to live with any in laws and like to be independant because I know how meddling they can be and I dont want my marriage to result in divorce. This has been causing lots of tension. What do I do in this regard. I am scared of living with a mother in law. But he has been looking after her since his parents have divorced many years ago. His other siblings are free and living on their own. Is it not their responsibility now to also look after their mother and give him some time off for when after he is married. I dont know what to do?
Please advise

Shukran

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Asked on October 26, 2008 12:00 am
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Think carefully. Find out about 'Mother in law'! - If compatable, then ok. Ohterwise put your condition of seperation and frequent visitation
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Answered on October 26, 2008 12:00 am