talaaq via email

Question ID: 31289

Assalamu Alaikum Mufti Brother,
According to the Hanafi Fiqh I have a couple of questions.
I am 32 now. In 2001 I had my first Nikah. After some difficulties we lived at her parents house. In july 2002 we separated. After 2 weeks I said to her on the phone Talaaq, Talaaq, Talaaq with the intention to divorce her completely. After this we had like 2 phone talks and she wanted me back. But I didnt want it. Now in 2012 I know she is with another boy without Nikah and she has 2 kids with this men.
Question 1.Is my divorce valid because we did not have Iddah. And am I responsible for this in my grave?
In July 2011 I had my second Nikah with another woman. A couple weeks later we had a discussion and by EMAIL I give her one Talaaq. She was at my mothers place but I did not know. After 2 days I picked her up and said to her that I am taking you home. My mother and Father cried and said to me to do this never again. But in January 2012 we had a discussion again and trough a sms I typed the next line: With my heart I give you Talaaq, Talaaq, Talaaq. The meaning was to scare here and not divorce here. And after five hours she come back home and since then we live together as husband and wife. We dont have any kids. On both the issues she had menses. Mufti I know that Allah s.w.t. is very mad but my joy in my eyes are gone.
2.And Is my second Nikah Valid?
3. Is there a way to escape from Hellfire after so many Sin
What is your advice to escape from punishment in the afterlife? My heart belongs to my Rab but I make a joke about the Deen and I am crying everyday and I only think about the afterlife. I only want to do is Ibadat.
Question 3. If I stay with my wife and take a risk will my Salah, Ramadan and Hadj Valid?
Thank you in Advance…Wassalaam.

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Asked on January 1, 1970 12:00 am
Private answer

1) Divorce
2) The second Nikah is not valid any longer
3) You cannot stay with that lady as she is no longer your wife. Separate immediately. Repent and turn towards Allaah.

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Answered on January 1, 1970 12:00 am