Assalamu Alaikum Mufti Brother,
According to the Hanafi Fiqh I have a couple of questions.
I am 32 now. In 2001 I had my first Nikah. After some difficulties we lived at her parents house. In july 2002 we separated. After 2 weeks I said to her on the phone Talaaq, Talaaq, Talaaq with the intention to divorce her completely. After this we had like 2 phone talks and she wanted me back. But I didnt want it. Now in 2012 I know she is with another boy without Nikah and she has 2 kids with this men.
Question Is my divorce valid because we did not have Iddah. And am I responsible for this in my grave?