Asalamualaikum,
My wife was married before and her husband had passed away , after 4 months of the death of her late husband we got married. My wife came into the marriage with a lot of anger towards life and also couldn’t understand why The Almighty took her late husband, this made huge fights in our marriage and I gave her 3 talaqs at one stage, we chose to ignore these because it was said out of anger, I also said it to her to scare her and never meant it, as our marriage continued it got worse and on 3 other occasions I said talaq, but none with any intention, I’m a very emotional man and have a lot of anger. My wife or I never ever left the house because she had no where to go, she is 4 months pregnant now and we are having a baby girl, we still live together, but of lately I been seeking the truth, I read somewhere that if you say talaq out of anger it doesn’t count? I also read that a women must agree to a talaq? As women have rights in marriage as well. According to some references it must be done in good honour and never labour the next partner? I feel like the talaqs were said out of my own immaturity and my wife shouldn’t be punished for it. Are we divorced?
