four years ago i lost my parents in an accident. ever since i lost my parents i make it my duty to visit the qabrastan every week. when i get to the qabr after making my Duaa i start talking as if they are physically standing near me. can they hear me. at times i ask Allaah to convey my message to them. should i tell them of all worldly affairs. some times i even tell them of any difficulties that i am going though i ask them to make duaa for me i always tell them that they are closer to Allaah then i am.
is it right for me to do what i am doing. i feel at ease when i visit the qabr