Sexual Feelings

Question ID: 25368

Assalaamu Alaikum Mufti

I’m married 20 years and my wife and I love each other very much. I’m very devoted to her and never betrayed her.

However, for some time now I’ve had sexual feelings for another woman who very dear to my wife and the family. I love my wife very much, I make all my salaahs and love reciting the Quran but I do not know how to not have sexual thoughts and feelings for this lady.

She is also a good Muslim who has not given any reason for me to feel that way and has no interest in me in that way.

Please help with advice.


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Asked on March 12, 2009 12:00 am
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Once you know the problem, 1/2 the problem is over. Avoid all contact, means of contact regarding this women. Make Salaat with regularity. Occupy yourself with increase in Durood recitation.

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Answered on March 12, 2009 12:00 am