Practices done on the day of eid

Should one do these things or stop it. You know stopping all these things like hugging and doing muanqah and musafa on Eid days in India is common and prevalent from ages and to put a stop to it all off a sudden will cause others to get offended and even cut relations and they might think and say ” that suddenly you have beccome pious and trying to avoid things which have been done for centuries and from even Ulemas and other people. ” So I will have no answers. What is the way out?
Jazzak Allah!