polygamy

assalamualaikum, i know i might be treading sensitive and controversial territory but would it be possible for respected mufti to educate me about the issue of polygamy and hoor al ayn in jannah,,it is most womens’ardent desire to be in an exclusive relationship with her husband, sometimes a women makes lots of sacrifices in marriage, especially when she has to put up with difficult in laws living with them, bringing up children, sacrificing sleep, etc much more than men ever realise and all she wants is for a man to love and cherish her, be loyal and faithful and treat her the way she deserves to be treated and cherishe
i know in jannah there will be no jealousy but i wouldnt like to be with a men who has been intimate with soo many women, i will feel that i am just one of the many, even though worldly women will be superior to hoor. will Allah no grant our wish of being in an exclusive monogamous relationship with our partner??