slmz i want to know that if my wife went and opened up a divorce case against me and i signed the first talaak.she sat for her idaat but within the idaat she went to her sisters place for iftaar and on eid day. she was there with close family members.she did not sign the divorce form as yet.we are dating at the moment and we have a son.were do we stand or can we get back together and what are the conditions.is it ok for a wife to give talaak to her husband were he is in financial difficulty and she earns the same as him but i took advantage of her by not providing for her.i also abused her which i really regret doing.she knows how much i love her and i cant live without them both. plz advice me slmz
In Islaam, the man has the Right of Talaaq. If in her Iddat period you whilst "dating" her held her, kissed her etc, then you and her in Nikah again. Do not fool around with Nikah, Talaaq and Iddat laws.