these are two urgent questions
in the regard to women going to the cemetery there is a hadith where the prophet(saw) passed by a lady who was crying at the grave, he told her to have sabr (patience), later on he told her sabr (patience) is in the beginning of a calamity.
A’isha(ra) in one night followed the prophet(saw) to the cemetery being suspicious that he went to one of his other wives.
1)in both these cases the nabbi(saw) did not prohibit them from going to the cemetery. how do you reconcile this with the hadith that Allah cursed the female who goes to the cemetery.
2) what is the evidence for reading the quran for the deceased.