People undermining islam and muslims

Many people in Western countries blame Muslims for the following: They say that we let Muslims building mosques, wear the Hijaab, go for hajj, open Islamic schools, practice their religion openly, go to universities and receive degrees, work in high position with great salaries, participate politically, and many other things. These people that say this then say: And yet, they dont like us. My question is, how do we respond to that?