Not practicing muslims

I am almost a lone bread winner in my household and there are many problems and challenges staring at myself and my family ,myself and my family are not Islamically inclined and despite a few minor efforts by myself nothing has changed and it seems as if its a lost cause to the extent I have almost given up any hope of myself and my family living and practicing like how a muslim family should like performing the daily salaat and observing Ikraam and Muslim and etc what should I do as this really makes me unhappy and I have developed this anger and hatred for the way we live almost non-muslim like or like the ”occasion” muslim .