multiple nikkahs

Question ID: 31483

assalaam wa alaikum
I am a 23yr old female. I like a male who works with me. however when i questioned him on marriage he wanted to wait till he finished his studies. during the interim a proposal had come for me. the boy and the family seem to be good and my parents and my family took liking to the boy and his family. with the pressure and happiness of my family and a slight good feeling i said yes to the proposal i tried to make it work. however after a month i find myself stil having feelings for the 1st guy. i have spoken to the 1st guy and he now agrees to marry sooner. i now have the problem were i have told someone else yes but my heart is yearning for another.
we have told the proposed party yes and have even set a date for nikah and booked a hall.
my parents are very upset on the matter and we now have to disrupt someone elses life.
please assist in decision. should i continue with the proposal or break it off and make nikkah with the 1sy guy from my workplace. if i have to marrt the proposed guy i will have to leave my workplace and settle with him where ever

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Asked on November 16, 2012 11:55 am
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Place everything on hold. Make Istikhaara. Then move forward accordingly. This is one of the ills of females working. Also lay facts open with your parents.

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Answered on November 16, 2012 11:55 am