Assalaam Alaikum Mufti
I have a very sensitive question of a personal sexual nature. I suffer from premature ejaculation/ A pious doctor gave me onitment but it does not help.
A way of helping the above problem is to practise with mastubation and try not to ejaculate early when we have sex after masturbating; but it does not always help me in satsfying my wife.
Even after I masturbate, I sometimes ejaculate long before my wife and this makes her very unhappy and puts a strain on our marraige.
When I perform oral sex on my wife and thereafter have sex with her it helps a lot and it then satisfies her. In this way I satify her as she then ejaculate the same time as me even if I ejaculate early.
To ease the strain on our marraige due to my problem, am I allowed to masturbate and perform oral sex on my wife?
Maaf for such crude questions.
Shukran
