Massallah pertaining to using the middle finger to ones wife

Question ID: 24138

Assalaamu Alaykum
i appreciate you are busy and forgive me if i make a mistake. I have tried my best to not use any bad language. could you please give a fatwa:
Question regarding actual divorce statement and metaphors:
1) In England sticking up a middle finger to someone means ‘fuck off’ and could also mean ‘get lost’ depeding on the intention (apology for the language). If a man sticks up his middle finger with intention, does this affect his nikkah? The middle finger was not shown to the wife and shown when no one was around and no one saw it. No words were said.
Please forgive me.

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Asked on May 20, 2011 12:52 pm
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There is double ambiguity in both words, this it will depend upon the intention of the person saying it. If the intention is divorce, then (1) divorce will occur/fall/take place.

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Answered on May 20, 2011 12:52 pm