AsSalaamualaikum
Dear Mufti Sahb
i have been married recently. my husband and i have been having a few disagreements. when he is upset i usually remain silent until he calms down and then wish to talk to him, hiwever he does not like me to do so as he says that i show no concern when he is upset. A week ago he got angry and told me that i should go to my mothers house and i should tell her that he is considering a talaaq. and he said that i can decide where i would like to spend ,y iddat.
does this constitute as a talaaq being given?
later that night the families were involved. he then came to me that night and held me. he says he only said that he threatened me with talaak for me to realise how important the issue is to him.