Massallah pertaining to sexual intercourse and being unmarried

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As Salaamu alaykum respected mufti.
Please excuse the explicit content of my questions.
I had a discussion with a friend at school regarding sins of the sexual nature. I am aware that no sin is better or worse than the other but the specificity of the sin’s punishment is important as we had disagreed on many points.
This was all said with regards to a single man that is not married.
1.Is the punishment for performing either
full intercourse (vaginal) with a women, and just having a sexual encounter with the women( not vaginal or anal) but leading to ejaculation due to the sexual stimulation of the women he same? If not what is the respective punishments?
2.Drinking alcohol is said to carry the forty day period as well as a hadith if I remember correctly that any person who drinks even a little amount of alcohol will be prevented from entering Jannah for a set amount of time until he repents and Allah (swt) forgives him, please correct me if I am wrong. With this in mind, what is the sin for performing full intercourse(vaginal) with a women, and, consuming alcohol in any amount?
3. My friend viewed alcohol as worse as it carries the forty day penalty in which the offender is bound to ask for forgiveness as his prayers and duas will not be accepted as compared to intercourse which does not carry the forty day penalty. Is this correct?
4.As is with drinking mentioned in number 2. with the exception being, not intercourse(vaginal nor anal) but sexual stimulation performed by the women leading to ejaculation. I understand all of the above are haraam and totally forbidden in islam if out of wedlock and alcohol totally forbidden, but we require answers with the respective punishments so that we can understand Islam better.
JazakAllah.

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Asked on May 5, 2011 6:38 pm
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1) Both are major sins.
2) Both major sins. I have not heard of the little amount of consumption.
3) No
4) Major sins bring the wrath, anger and displeasure of Allaah.

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Answered on May 5, 2011 6:38 pm