Massallah pertaining to family ties

Question ID: 23804

Salaam Mufti,
My husband has one blood sister and 2 cosuin sisters. the blood sister and I have been very close, however due to intererence and my anger we have broke ties. I have asked for maaf for my anger directed at her many times and yet she still ignores me. The issue is mainly with the cousin sister who constantly makes carries false stories or finds out about my affairs and carries those stories to create issues for me. This cousin has told me to my face that i am nothing and i have also overheard conversations or walked into rooms where conversations were about their dislike to me due to my closeness with my sister in law.My husband knows of their behaviour as it has went on for almost 6 years but not one person including jy husband will ask them to leave me alone. this affects my relation with my husband.
With this last incident i had an outburst of anger and my sister inlaw was whom i screamed at. I admitted and made taubah that i was wrong. I know i cannot force her to forgive me or talk to me just like i can’t force the cousins to leave me alone but this is my husbands family that i cannot avoid as he gets angry at me. what can i read or what should i do tpo be invisible for them to cause problems with me or for me and keep a good relation with them and my husband. I hurt alot from their actions and i don’t know what to do. Please advise. JZK

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Asked on August 29, 2010 12:00 am
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Best solution is silence, avoidance, Duaa and Sabr.
Do not probe into false information and rumors.
Read Lahawla wala abundance.

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Answered on August 29, 2010 12:00 am