Massallah pertaining to a feeling after making Istikharah

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Asalaamualaikum Mufti
I have been divorced previously and so has the man who intends marrying me. we are very confused.6 months ago i read istikhaarah for marriage to him. I had a dream where he was on the tel phone advising my x husband how to go about the court route to get my kids. I then read about 3 months later and was depressed for the whole week.i felt weepy and misearable.i am not sure if that was because we were having problems due to his friendship with his x wife or was it the istikhaarah salaah.we do not have these problems any longer and would like to get married.he has read istikhaarah for 7 days and then asked mufti Elias for advice.Mufti advised him to read a further 2 nights which he did.he said at the time of reading he felt NOTHING.he didnt feel to get married nor not to get married to me. all this is very confusing.i spoke to a moulana who said that he has a very good character but has very emotional baggage due to what he went through in his 1st marriage.what do we do?is it ok to get married?

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Asked on May 5, 2011 6:31 pm
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Answered on May 5, 2011 6:31 pm