Marriage situataions

Question ID: 24919

Assalamualaikum Mufti

I would like to know what dua I can read to not become suspicious over my husband.He does things and dont say to me.Like example his family stays in another city when he goes there he stays with them,but the night before he leaves to come home he stays at his friends house.Whenever we go he never introduced me to his friend.He just says ladies must not get involved with men talk and no need for me to meet his friends.My husband is very kind with me sometimes,he swears at me at times,sometimes abuses me physically,but i dont mind as i cant go anywhere.His father has married twice and i fear that he will or maybe have married second time also.he is a very secretive person,he doesnt allow me to see his fone or even answer it.He takes his phone with him to the bathroom also and toilet.I really love him Mufti,we have marshallah children and would hate to break this relationship up.I dont know what to do,as i am fat and ugly and not modern like other women.I just want to know the truth from him and dont know how to ask him as he will start a fight and then give me talak.I dont want talak and dont want him to get married again,so what do i do Mufti.How to solve this problem yet he loves looking at beautifull slim women.Should i just forget this doubt in my mind?Please advice me Mufti.i read 5 daily namaz and make due.

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Asked on January 1, 1970 12:00 am
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For now, avoid suspicion and be thankful for what you got. His abuse is totally un-Islaamic.

Cook well,feed him well.

Make Duaa. When you avoid been sensative he will calm down.

Have firm faith in Allaah and his plans

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Answered on January 1, 1970 12:00 am