Marriage matters

Question ID: 28586
0 husband and i don’t seem to be getting along.i am in purdah for the past 10 years and he on the other hand is still modern.he feels that because of me he has to stop alot of things in his life.we don’t go to the movies and when we go out to eat he doesn’like to sit in the purdah section,so i lift up my nikaab and eat.the othe day we were at the dinner table eating and the topic came up about the july handicap,so he told my daughter that he would have loved to go and watch the horses running. he does not i said it was haraam to be there no matter what your intentions are.he said that i am narrow-minded and that he can’t have a decent conversation with me he always verbally abuses me when we have an argument.he makes me feel that i am a good for nothing wife,he always insults me and that he stuck my nonsense for the past 25 years that we were married.he says that after my daughters wedding which is in 2 weeks time than he will divorce me.mufti please help me.i don’t know what to do.i feel that i also want out of this relationship because no matter how much i do when there is an argument he always says i am useless and says things which put me down.i sometimes think of taking my life because i still love my husband but he says mean things to me and i don’t have anyone to talk to.recently he has become very arrogant.

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Asked on July 18, 2008 12:00 am
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Be patient, no need to take your life
. Be more diplomatic
. Do not be confrontatial
. He must be stressed due to other reasons, find out what and evaluate them.

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Answered on July 18, 2008 12:00 am