leaving husband

Asaalam Walaikum,I’m 30 years of age iv been with my husband for 10 years,he spend almost all his time outside he comes home late 10pm,12am even early morning,if I ask him he says he talking business until dat time so he can put food on my table,but he gives me like R1000 once a year to buy my clothes and children cloths,but he buys all brand name cloths,tight t-shirt to show his muscle as he’s gyming,he wears his Kurta only on Ramadhaan,he makesure he shave his beard when I ask all about this he said he not geting any sin coz he is a man.I told him if he doesn’t change this I will divorce him,he laughs at me and say other people they have problems more than us but they still together,so if I leave him I will show people that I fail to takecare of him,if I ask us to go for marriage counselling he say he has no problem,is me who have a problem,he said i must wait more years until he changes.I talked to his mom,I talked to my mom also,but nothing is changing,what should I do I’m nt happy for 10 years,my patiance is wearing thin,am I wrong if i leave him?