Husband continuosly leave home after issue

Question ID: 27982

As’salaamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh Mufti

I have been married for 7 months. I have a problem with my husband who keeps leaving the house (which is mine) when he gets angry or upset with me. (he packs his bags and takes all his possessions)
No matter what the issue is, big or small, and after much reassurances from me that my home is his home, etc and countless promises from him not to repeat this, he continues to do so.
I usually have to beg/plead with him to return home, which he does.

Two days ago, after a major argument, he did the same thing. He said some hurtful words to me and I am now quite fed up with this habit of his and have since not called him.
I have decided to give him to time to deal with his issues on his own and hopefully he will miss me when he see’s I’m not around.

A couple weeks ago my doctor told me she suspects I may have cervical cancer. I’ve had to have more tests done & I am presently awaiting the results which has been stressing me out and coupled with my husbands issues, this is now causing me to have anxiety attacks.

I have not been sleeping or eating properly and my husband goes and does this when he knows my condition. I have since requested medication from my doctor as I feel i cannot cope.

Mufti, I really love this man, and I don’t know what to do. I would appreciate your advice & Duaas.

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Asked on November 11, 2008 12:00 am
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One side you like him but this man is taking advantage.
Our 'Wakeel' and witness in marriage, bring them in, explain to them the situation.
Reconcile with condition and may Allaah cure you.

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Answered on November 11, 2008 12:00 am