Assalam Alaikum
I want to ask about a situation which faces me daily and it makes me cringe. I daily hear comments from guys that Actress “A” is very beautiful, Actress “B” has a very nice figure, I have a crush on “C” etc and they also go to the extent of liking their facebook pages and watching movies(not only porn) just because it has these actresses in them. When I take up the issue with them that this is not moral and is un Islamic ,they say it’s harmless, just for fun, we are not actually dating or having an affair with these actresses and the biggest excuse we are guys ,it’s natural ,we can’t stop it girls(their wives) should stop being jealous and insecure etc. My question is what can I say or show them so that they at least realize its wrong. Also is it really natural for guys to do such things? Are they hard wired and can’t stop committing such acts unless they become a saint? Please tell me. This is becoming really frustrating for me now and I have rejected two proposals just because of this.
JazakAllah
Your Sister
