Family/Marriage problems

Question ID: 24967

Assalamu Alaikum,

i’m a girl who is 21 years old,after my a/l’s i started working for an islamic organization and met a boy who is 2 years younger to me from a very good family and islamic background,
and we started loving each other,his family knows about our relationship and they have agreed in it,but when my parents got to know about it they started threatning me saying they will kill their self if i get married to him,the reason they gave me why i shouldn’t marry that guy is beacuse he was younger to me and our relations wont except.
i really love and respect my family so i don’t want to take wrong decision against them which will make them worry,
and i’m so in love with that boy where i don’t want to start my life with another man other than him,i know he is the correct person for me,
but it is that my parents who are forcing me in to other marriage proposal saying that they are much more educated and has money dan him.
i pray isthikahara always and i ask allah to make me and my boy friend live together in this worlsd and an in the heavens.
i’m so depressed as my parents aren’t listening to me they are seeking proposals and forcing me to it,please help me to over come my worries,give me advice what i should do and how to talk to my parents about this matter in an healthy way,
and please make dua for me,
. nuzrath.

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Asked on July 29, 2009 12:00 am
Private answer

Firstly striking up this relationship is Haraam, you are starting on the wrong footing.

However approach some Alim when your parents will listen to intercede on your behalf.

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Answered on July 29, 2009 12:00 am