Question ID: 28214

As Salaamu Alaikum,
I have a 5yr old son, my husband does not want anymore children, he says one is enough but I yearn for another child.
With that, upon intercourse he withdraws as to prevent me from falling pregnant as he says he does not want a dark looking child again, especially if it’s a girl they cannot find husbands.
We are both light brown in complexion but being a child he does play in the sun quite a lot therefore being burned.
What duas can I read to change my husbands way of thinking so that I can have another baby as it must come from him and I know this sounds silly, what duas can I read to have a fair baby as I hate being the one to take blame?


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Asked on October 4, 2008 12:00 am
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Your Husband is one requiring counselling and good advice. Fairness or darkness of child is not important. Piety,  character, personality and righteousness on growning is the criteria to success, happiness, peace and tranquility. It is indirectly questioning the 'Taqdeer' of Allaah by such ludicrous statements. Make Duaa for a healthy child who will be a good obedient Muslim not fair looking child who will be a rotter and disobedient. Show this to your Husband
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Answered on October 4, 2008 12:00 am