mufti saab, I am so unsure as to what decision to make. I was married before & the marriage dissolved almost seven years ago. Recently an old friend came back into my life. We have decided to take things slowly & see if a union – marriage would be an option. I am financially stable & independant. I am currently supporting my mother, sister & brother. This gentlemne has his own business but I am not sure if he would be able to provide/support for me when we are married. His father is marhoom & he lives with his mother as his other siblings are married & have moved out.
We did have a relationship about three years after my divorce & I ended it as I was not sure if he was the right person for me. I have since then decide to give him the benefit as I am getting on in years.
My sister recently told me that she had the three following dreams:
1. Both this gentlemen & I are in the dream, his appearence becomes darkened & he changes into an evil figure.
2. My marhoom father appears to my sister instructing her to warn me to stay away from this gentlemen.
3. My marhoom father is upset with my sister that she has not warned me to stay away from this gentlemen. He again instructs my sister to inform me that he is not the one for me.
Mufti saab, please explain what the dreams mean & guide me to do the right thing.