cold feet to marriage

Question ID: 31575

slms… how are you?
i received a marriage proposal and we were supposed to get fixed on his return from umrah, but once he returned he got cold feet and backed out. we continued speaking as friends and about 2 weeks ago the boy decided he wanted to get married again, so came home to speak to my parents. at the moment he has cold feet again and keeps changing his mind every other day. I’m not exactly sure what his insecurities are and now i’m not sure how to handle the situation. I’ve red istikhara as well and it was positive.
Kindly advise.

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Asked on November 16, 2012 12:04 pm
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Speak to your parents about it. Avoid contact with him until matter is properly resolved and you are married to him.
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Answered on November 16, 2012 12:04 pm