I just need advice. I’m married for over 6yrs now n have 2 kids. My husband is on drugs. He was doing it before he even met me and I only found out after my 1st baby. We lived with his parents for 2 years and he always use to leave me and b out till early hours of the morning. We moved out into our own home and there it was the same problem where he would leave us sometimes even weekends and when I’d block him from going out hed get physical n he would even let his friends do the drugs with him in the house while we were there. Eventually he decided to go to rehab for 2 months but then relapsed after about a month or more. When my second child was born his mum thought it would be a good idea to move in with my parents because of his drug problem. He didn’t change at all.. He got worse and even slit his wrist because of how bad he got with the drugs. When he came out of hospital he was clean for six months but then started again. I kicked him out of my parents house because he was getting hectic again and I just couldn’t go threw all of it again. His staying by his mum but his so out of hand with this stuff. I beg him to stop but he just won’t even try. I love him but I have been so patient and have really tried and now I want a divorce but he won’t give it to me. Can I get a divorce without him giving it to me?