Being a second wife

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I’m a second wife and was a secret until february this year. We made nikah in 2008 and all my family were aware of my nikah except my husbands family. He’s from india. We have a 3 year old son. He’s been having financial problems since 2 years now and in february he deserted us and went away to india. After 2 n a half months he contacted me again and he now comes to spend time with us and gives whatever money he can . His first wife keeps threatening to kill herself because he’s with me too. His brother blames me for all my husbands financial problems and says everyone is suffering because of me. He says everyones bidua is on me. Could this be true ? Islamically am I to blame ? Am I sinful ? And his brother is now telling me to divorce my husband. My husband refuses to divorce me and promises me that he won’t do such a thing. Is this zulm what his brother is doing to me ? What duas can I read to keep my marriage ? I’m afraid his family may do other things to seperate us.. What can I do ? Jazakallah

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Asked on October 9, 2013 9:48 pm
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Their curses on you will be of no effect. You are NOT to be blamed Islaamically. Your brother-in-law is behaving badly and reacting un-Islaamically. You cannot divorce your husband.
Read 'La Hawla wa la quwata....' in abundance.
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