Massallah pertaining to fixing ones marriage

as salaam-u-alikum
Dear Muftie Saab
I am in a huge financial problem due to a client running away without paying.this has led to our marital problem.my wife calls me a rogue ,argues,shouts at the children and at my mother as well.she is well aware of the problem but is under the impression that i have used the money elsewhere.it has reached a stage where we cannot be intimate and i cannot even touch her.she is always squealing about money from the time we get up till we go to bed.my business has stopped completely and i have no income to pay the debt.i have made arrangements to pay but the company have taken judgement.they say they need all the money at once.i am not looking for financial help but i need to save my marriage.what advise can you give me.