1)If a wife is in her menses , i heard it is allowed for her to pleasure her husband in other ways .. i would like to know what are some of these ways since all of the acts such as oral relations and hand usage are classified as makrooh, detested ?
2)If spouses engage in oral relations(assuming its permissible) .. is it permissible for mazi and mani to enter the mouth ?
3)If not , and mazi and mani is swallowed by mistake ..what is the ruling regarding this ? and what should one do ?
4)Also i heard that oral is better not to do because we read Quraan with our mouth .. but i dont understand we cleanse ourselves in the toilet with our hands and then we touch the Quraan ? and then i heard then hand usage with ones spouse is also detested .. but why if we wash our hands thrice like we do after toilet , doesnt it become clean?
Please forgive me for the nature of the questions but i do not want to get sin especially when im in Halaal relations with my spouse !