Wife on menses

Question ID: 21361

Assalamu-Alaykum Mufti,

1)If a wife is in her menses , i heard it is allowed for her to pleasure her husband in other ways .. i would like to know what are some of these ways since all of the acts such as oral relations and hand usage are classified as makrooh, detested ?

2)If spouses engage in oral relations(assuming its permissible) .. is it permissible for mazi and mani to enter the mouth ?

3)If not , and mazi and mani is swallowed by mistake ..what is the ruling regarding this ? and what should one do ?
4)Also i heard that oral is better not to do because we read Quraan with our mouth .. but i dont understand we cleanse ourselves in the toilet with our hands and then we touch the Quraan ? and then i heard then hand usage with ones spouse is also detested .. but why if we wash our hands thrice like we do after toilet , doesnt it become clean?

Please forgive me for the nature of the questions but i do not want to get sin especially when im in Halaal relations with my spouse !

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Asked on October 9, 2009 12:00 am
Private answer

1) See on site.

2) No

3) Specific organs are used for specific puposes, as determained by norms of life, when used in other way, then detestment sets in.

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Answered on October 9, 2009 12:00 am