Wife has imbalance in hormones and becomes a different person at times

Question ID: 18707

Respected Mufti Saheb, AsSalamalikum, Jazakallah Khair for your services. My matter is one of a complicated nature and has me very worried and I seek your advice on the matter
.Both my wife and I have previously been married and divorced. We are in our 3rd year of our nikha and I am slowly loosing my mind.
I love my wife with every breath in my body and I even did a dua in Mecca to ask Allah to allow this wedding to take place to which I was rewarded
.However my wife has hormone issues during the end of her cycles and she becomes a completely different person unknown to me. She becomes very aggressive and abusive to the extent that she is giving me Talaq verbally. Add to this just to hurt and provoke me she says such vile things as to how sex was better with her previous partners and how she wants go back to them
.For any normal man this would send him in a rage and go to extremes of finishing with her. But I on the other hand love her too much to leave her
.After a few days once her body takes its natural cause she returns to her normal self
.What I need to know is the nikah still valid?
I am not sure how much more of this I can take unless I go deaf by Allah’s mercy what would happen to me for being ungrateful for a dua that Allah has bestowed upon me while I raised my hands up in front of the Khaba?
I await your response so I can breath again

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Asked on October 13, 2014 2:58 pm
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No matter how many times she divorces you, it does not matter. Nothing happens. Your Nikaah is still valid. Do not pray for deafness. Source medication for problem. Have patience. Matters will settle InshaAllaah.

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Answered on October 13, 2014 2:58 pm