What should be done if ones siblings and mother treats one badly?

Question ID: 23416

Salaams Mufti,
what can an elder son do if his sister buys love of other brothers,she has received a large divorce settlement and has hassad on her elder brother and his family.The mother has had major surgery and the elder son phones the little brother asking when she is being admitted to hospital and when surgery is being done,no one calls and informs elder brother.he phones everyday and checks on mothers progress but little brother does not phone to say when things are happeninig as she lives with little brother,elder brother was only informed a day later that surgery was done and also a day later after she was sent home from hospital even after elder brother asked to be phoned when this happens.when elder brother visits there is always tension in the air as the sister tries to belittle elder brother and his family,all the family are scared of this sister as she has physically assaulted people and family,all her children ran away from home because they where being assaulted,she also assaulted her ex husband.Mother and little brother do not want to hear anything about sister as she feeds them with money,Mother is only interested in going out week-end and having good times at the Fete and Fordsburg Square and only if he can give her lots of money will she recognise her elder son.Elder son witnessed mother having an affair with a neighbor when he was a young boy and has never forgotten this,mother is aware that elder son knows but tries her best to make his life miserable,the elder son also goes to visit mother because he has to and not because he wants to and he now wants nothing to do with her.Please advise

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Asked on May 30, 2010 12:00 am
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Visit mother. Try to aid her when need arises.
Make Duaa for her.
Do not get into any situation that is going to cause you harm, agony or embarrassment.
Do not harm or be harmed.

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Answered on May 30, 2010 12:00 am