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is my dads spirit around our house? Can he see us although he passed away in hospital?
is my dad aware when we go to see him at the grave yard?
what the best things we can do for our dad that will benefit him in his hereafter? What should we pray?
And what are the best prays my father can benefit from?
Also when I do visit do I sit by the head or feet? Is he aware I am there to visit him. Is it a shirk to talk to my dad?
Do I visit the grave before Magrhib?