Assalamualaikum Mufti Saab
Please interpret the following dreams i had last night.
1) i need to use the toilet but it is very dirty so i try to use it by not touching it. Urine goes onto my trousers. I stop as I feel this is napak and I think to myself i will have to take my trousers off so the urine does not touch my skin
2) i am in a boat or something and since i could not find a suitable toilet i place a cup with water for istinja beneath my skirt as there are people around and i do not want them to see. I urinate and then i do istinja. I do not know where the urine goes but i know i am clean in the dream.
3) i am at my uncles house and there is going to be a wedding. Initially i carry my baby niece into the house. Then a hindu lady says sge needs candle wax for something for the wedding. I go to the kitchen and light a candle but it goes out and while this happens i think to myself that as Muslims we should not imitate others and do any ceremony with candles. I light another candle and take it to the room where this lady and my aunt is. They ask me where the other young females are ie my cousins wives and my ex husbands cousins wife. I say i am the only one working i do not know where the others are. In the dream I feel like they are purposely trying to make my life difficult and put a load on me just like how unjust my inlaws were to me during marriage. Even though I did everything with good intentions and went out of my way the inlaws always found fault and looked down on me.