Sister discontent with life

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My sister and I have grown apart since she got married. She has become extremely jealous and is constantly discontent with her life, the fact that her husband is not a professional, the fact she does not get to travel overseas on holidays ( generally on trivial materialistic things). In order to maintain family ties we speak to each other but she often asks prying questions about my wife, my profession, material possessions etc, displaying extreme envy .I try avoiding them politely but this infuriates her. We used to be quite close but due to her vulgar and abusive personality I prefer to keep a distance. I often have dreams of us fighting and arguing. I know that she is not very regular with salaah and when I tend to suggest that she become more deeni she becomes quite irritated. She is my only sister and I would like advice on the best way of handling such a relationship. Also, what level of contact should I maintain with such an individual.

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Asked on January 25, 2010 12:00 am
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Talk to her as nicely as possible. Explain that she cannot know all your private affairs. Make Duaa for her. Avoid when she becomes vulgar, aggressive and upset.
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Answered on January 25, 2010 12:00 am