Sibling rivalry due to zakaat intention

Question ID: 22350

Salaam mufti.I cannot be at ease as I I having grudge and hatred from my sister due to Zakaat intention.before Ramadan could start we were doing shopping and we agreed to buy and pay for the the Ramadan groceries half half. My sister gave R1000 and I bought for around R600.She got angry and ended up fighting that I used,her full R1000 and didn’t give her change so out of anger I said to her ok I will transfer the difference back to u but as ever since she say she got no barakat in her salary she hates me as to why due I make an.intention to give her as family zakaat. She continues to grudge me and fight with me. What do I do in this case,I understand it was wrong of me to utter zakaat but how do rectify my error and then convince her to forgive and make peace and stop the grudge.

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Asked on September 15, 2016 9:37 pm
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السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُاللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

Sit with her. Explain and admit your error. If you can afford, give her more money.
Tell her and you make Istighfaar, become regular in Salaat performance. Read Surah Waqihah before sleeping.
All will settle – InshaAllaah.

وَعَلَيْكُمُ السَّلَام وَرَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ وَمَغْفِرَتُهُ
Mufti Elias

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Answered on September 20, 2016 12:34 pm