How to choose from proposals

Question ID: 32250

Assalamu alaikum, Respected Mufti Sahab, I have started reading a formula from your booklet ‘Tried and tested method of getting pious spouse”. I have been reading now for about 2 months but till now no such proposal of my liking has come yet. I am a male of 34 yrs and want to marry soon. I am giving you reference to the previous question asked relating to marriage. The question ID is 27231 and 27230 and the date is 18th Oct 2016. Though at one place my elders went to see but I think it did not suit me. The other day a man whom I know but not very personally told me about a girl for marriage but I did not see the girl and asked that man if the girls wears naqab, will she do kidmat of my parents, does she says namaz etc but to this he said that when she comes to the husbands house then she will wear naqab. etc etc so I was not interested and so the matter was closed. 1.Whether I am doing wrong by rejecting the proposal like this which I don’t seen fit for me or should I believe that this is from Allah and should consider even if it does not match my criteria and liking.2. Secondly in the leaflet it was written at the starting that a person has to fix the place of saying namaz and wazifa. But how can I fix a place for namaz. As when I am saying in Jamat I sometimes get space in the first row, sometimes at the back, moreover when I go to work I say my namaz in the masjid there and so my place of namaz and masjid changes. Sometimes I miss my jamat and I have to read alone, in that situation also I have no fix place. So what should I do? Will the effects of the wazifa diminish if I do like this.3. Sometimes I tend to sin like looking at ghair mahra intentionally or un-intentionally. In other cases my eyes falls on absurd pictures on net. Sometimes I backbite and tell lies, so will these effect my reading and wazifas. Please guide me how to chose when a proposal comes.
Jazzak Allah!

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Asked on December 28, 2016 5:36 pm
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السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُاللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

1.) You should not reject all possibilities.
2.) Do as much as you can.
3.) Repent on sinning. Make a lot of Istighfaar.

وَعَلَيْكُمُ السَّلَام وَرَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ وَمَغْفِرَتُهُ
Mufti Elias

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Answered on January 11, 2017 4:42 pm