Clarification on aspects from leaflet – getting pious matches (continued)

Question ID: 27231

Assalamu alaikum Respected Mufti Sahab, I have read the leaflet “Tried and tested method of getting pious matches” taken from your site. I have taken a formula to read. But I have a few questions which is bothering me. If you can clarify and remove my confusion I would be very happy. . 4A.) Should one’s parents try and look for bride/groom while one is still reading or should one keep reading the dua/verse and wait that Allah will send it on its own a good match for one. 4B) Suppose if one receives a invitation/proposal in the middle of reading should the person or the parents consider it and go and see the bride/groom. Like if one started reading a particular formula and within a few days say a week or so a proposal has come , so should ones parents or elders consider it or wait for the verse to be read for full 21 days of 40 days as the case may be and then look for any proposal or consider any proposal. 5.Lastly should one do istekharah even after reading the verse or wearing taweez taken from formula after getting any proposal. As one might think this formula has been given from a particular purpose, so when that purpose is achieved what is the need of istekharah as it is automatically sent from Allah! What should be the case?
I would be anxiously waiting for the reply.
Was salam.
Jazzak Allah!

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Asked on October 18, 2016 5:02 pm
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السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُاللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

4A. Do both.
4B. Go.

5. Still do Istikhaarah etc.

وَعَلَيْكُمُ السَّلَام وَرَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ وَمَغْفِرَتُهُ
Mufti Elias

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Answered on October 25, 2016 1:19 pm