Not wanting to get married

Question ID: 20557

As salamu alaykum,

Theres a 29 sister most the time she doesnt get any marriage offers, but when ever she does she has 2 minds about getting married.

Reasons she wants to say no are;
She doesnt want to leave her family and her luxuries. She feels selfish for desiring marriage. She feels she hasnt done her best to serve her family i.e. parents brothers and sisters so wants to live with them longer. She is also scared of living with in laws. She doesnt feel ready.

At times she thinks she should get married because others are getting married. But when a chance arises isnt willing to take it

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Asked on June 28, 2016 8:58 pm
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All her fears are not valid.
She must move on in life.
A little difficulty will not kill anyone.
There are others to serve.
She is not indispensable.
Must take the opportunity.

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Answered on June 29, 2016 8:35 pm