Unsure whether divorce took place

Question ID: 33636

Assalamu alaikum dear Mufti sahab

I have a serious issue about the words I utter to my wife and she is scared that those words and situation falls under kinaya words so let me explain the situation

firstly we are newly married and had a baby one month before and after delivery she told me it was very painful and one baby is enough then I told her that ok I will not do intercourse from now without intention of divorce or separation just as of sudden i told her these words

the second word I told her is she is Impious (unclean) as her forty days are not finished after the delivery as she was laying beside me and hugging & kissing me after she touch my private part all of a sudden i said it’s haram without any intention as i was feeling sleepy and she was doing this

so can you please give me urgent guidance in the light of quran and hadith about this situation and the words been used are from kinaya if so what is the kaffara or talafee for this and what makes us to reunite again by nikah

jazakallahu khair and Allah bless you and request for duwa

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Asked on May 3, 2017 3:49 pm
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This does not equal divorce. Avoid using such words.

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Answered on May 14, 2017 8:55 pm