Is oral sex allowed?

Question ID: 20407

I’m a revert and have been Muslim for 9 years Alhamdulillah. I recently got married and have this urge to have oral sex with my wife.

I’m not really convinced not engaging into oral sex because there’s a difference of opinion.

I think that our mouth is probably more dirty than the sexual fluids in reality due to all the germs that fester.

Plus we carry our own najas fluids already in us anyway so if u swallowed a little of your partners by accident the stomach acids would break it down & remove it.

And oral sex can be performed in a way to avoid swallowing the fluids.

What harm is there really?

It’s actually a common sex practice & seems natural as opposed to anus sex which is just plain wrong & disgusting.

Then they’re is the view about pleasing your partner & satisfying each other on another level because you can get bored of just having plain sex over time.

Forgive me for being crude but I really need to be convinced so I can avoid oral sex and put a chain on my desires and temptations in this regard.

Jazakallah khairan

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Asked on June 15, 2016 6:23 pm
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Permissible, makrooh, no fluid must go into the mouth.

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Answered on June 18, 2016 10:34 pm