Dear Respected Mufti Saib,
My eldest brother passed away in April 2013.
I visit his grave every Friday. Due to unforeseen circumstances I could not do so for two Fridays. On the week prior to the next Friday that I was due to go he came in my dream.
I was driving away in my car. He stopped me. He had two live chickens, one on each hand. He gave the one on the right hand to me and said “give it water”. I took it…but woke up thereafter.
He family is his wife, three daughters and a son. All grown ups. One daughter is still single the other is about 30 years old with one son and is a widow. Both daughters and grandson lived with him. Now they are with their mum.
I assumed that he wants me to water his grave every time I went to visit. But I always do that. My mind tells me it could be something else.
I humbly await Respected Muftis interpretation.
May Allah give you long life to guide us. Insha Allah